“Don’t let anyone rent a space in your head,
unless they are a good tenant”
The Srinivasachar-Kaveriammal couple had two children: Kanakammal (1912–97) and
Venkatesan (1916–89). Kanakammal, who was married to A V Ramasawmi in 1927, had
given birth to Rajagopal (1928–2015), Hemalatha (1930–2019) and Sounderrajan (1932–
99) at our ancestral home. In 1936 Kanakammal was pregnant with her sixth child,
Anand (1936–99) and was living at Salem where Ramasawmi was the Chief Engineer
with the Erode Electricity Board. As Kaveriammal wanted to help her daughter at the
time of delivery and subsequently for the post-partum period, Srinivasachar had to
accompany her to Salem. Hence, he reluctantly let out the newly built house to one Dr.
Vijayaraghavan, a medical practitioner for a meagre sum of thirty rupees and requested
him to care of the house properly till he returned.
Srinivasachar was not particularly comfortable living in his son-in-law’s house at Salem
although it was a palatial residence with many servants. He had just retired as Office
Superintendent from Mysore Government Insurance Department and soon after got busy with rebuilding his old house. Being jobless, he found it difficult to spend his time
meaningfully though there were grandchildren around. He was also suffering from
diabetes. Looking at his restlessness, Kaveriammal thought it would be better if he lived
in Mysore with her brother Prof. Narayana Iyengar, as there were people to take care of
him.
Prof. Narayana Iyengar (1895–1974) was teaching Mathematics at Maharaja’s College,
Mysore and was living with his family which included his six children in the age group of
two to seventeen years and widowed mother-in-law, Kanakammal (Srinivasachar’s
sister). While Kaveriammal spent her time taking care of grandchildren and helping her
daughter (who had lost her seventh child in 1938 and eighth was born in 1939),
Srinivasachar’s health was deteriorating over time.
Around the time Srinivasachar breathed his last (1942), Ramasawmi was transferred to
Dacca (which was then part of India) and his family was still in Salem. He suggested to
his brother-in-law Venkatesan who was then doing his internship in Bezawada (today’s
Vijayawada) to settle down at Bangalore in his ancestral house so that his six children
can be admitted to school there. Thus, in 1942 Venkatesan got a job in Military
Engineering Service (MES), courtesy his brother-in-law. Dr. Vijayaraghavan, having lived
in our ancestral home for nearly six years for a measly rent vacated it without making
any fuss.
Meanwhile, Kanakammal started looking for an alliance for her brother. She visited her
uncle Prof. Narayana Iyengar at Mysore. It so happened that Prof. Narayana Iyengar’s
neighbour was one Chakravilasamma. Her brother Gopala Krishnamachari was the
second son-in-law of Srinivasa Gopalan and Chengamalam. She knew that Chegamalam
was looking for a suitable match for her fourth and youngest daughter – the sixteenyear-old Indira. She quickly arranged to get Indira to Prof. Narayana Iyengar’s house for
Kanakammal to approve.
Thus, Venkatesan got married to Indira in May 1943 and began his family life in his
ancestral home. This went on smoothly and the Venkatesan-Indira couple had five
children by 1955. Sometime in 1956, for asking his boss uncomfortable questions at
work, Venkatesan was transferred to Khadakavasala, a remote village on the outskirts
of Poona where the National Defence Academy was coming up. Venkatesan had to shift
with his family (mother, wife, and five children) to Khadakavasala.
Before moving out of Bangalore, Venkatesan had identified one Bowerlal Surana
belonging to the Marwari Jain community, who was looking for a large house for his
joint family of three brothers. A nominal rent of seventy rupees a month and ten
months’ rent as advance was fixed. Kaveriammal handed over the keys of the house to
Bowerlal in front of the painting of Lord Srinivasa and told him, “He is the witness! You
have to hand over the keys back to us whenever we return!” Every year Bowerlal used to write to Venkatesan giving the details of expenses that he incurred for maintaining
the house and adjusted them against the rent that he owed.
In April 1960, Kaveriammal brought my elder sister and me back to Bangalore from
Coonoor (where Ramasawmi had purchased a palatial house in 1956 for his postretirement life). She brought us back to Bangalore with a view to enrol us into a school.
We had spent the whole of the previous year living a carefree life in Coonoor. On
reaching Bangalore, we stayed with Rukminiammal (1906–82), Kaveriammal’s youngest
sister at Malleswaram (around nine kilometers from Ulsoor) because our ancestral
home had been let out.
A few days after reaching Bangalore, along with
Rukminiammal’s son Kuppuswamy, we visited Bowerlal to
inform him that we were back and that we wanted the
house for ourselves. Much to our shock, he had changed the
backyard and the interior of the house to suit the
convenience of his family. All the trees – drumstick, cashew,
and neem – and the various flowering plants had vanished.
In their place we saw an out-house and a couple of toilets with some empty land
between the rear door of the house and the out-house. A few wooden attics had come
up in a couple of rooms which housed items like vessels, cycles, etc., which had been
mortgaged to Bowerlal (as he was in the lending business). Bowerlal told us that he
needed some time to find a suitable place for shifting his large joint family.
Kaveriammal suggested that at least a room is given to start with and he can take some
time for finding another house. She further said, apart from two of us, the other two
kids will also shortly come back with the parents and hence, we will need more space.
Bowerlal reluctantly vacated one room at the back side with an attic, to which we
moved in early May.
By end of May, my father returned with my mother and other two siblings from
Khadakavasala (my eldest sister had passed away in 1957 having succumbed to juvenile
diabetes). My father borrowed some money from his brother-in-law Ramasawmi to
build one room and a bath-room so that the family could live with some ease. Though
Bowerlal had released one more room by the time my parents returned, it took three
more years for him to find another house and hand over complete possession of the
house to us. Meanwhile his third son Jawaharlal who then was studying in school
became my good friend and our friendship has continued for a long time
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