Skip to main content

EPILOGUE TO ‘THE AMAZING HUMAN MIND’

 

While many of the activities that we go through in our day-to-day life are institutionalised – family practices, education, profession, sports / entertainment and hence they have certain established regulatory frame-works. However, in a democratic country like India, one can create their own framework for conducting life as long as it does not hurt the individual, other human-beings, established institutions and environment at large.

After my graduation, during the last fifty years I have taken several avatars, ten to be precise – Research & Development engineer in the area of electronics (1973–84), parttime student and entrepreneur (1974–83), turned into a full-time serial entrepreneur manufacturing and selling electronics products across India (1984–93), exporter representing interests of Small and Medium Electronics Industries in Karnataka (1994– 2001), researcher in the area of entrepreneurship (2002–9) which fetched a doctorate, Rotarian engaging in Community Eye-care projects (since 2003), Advisor / Mentor to Higher Educational Institutions (2008–17), independent director in a Company’s Board (2009–20), Founder and Chief Mentor, Impact Foundation, a Business Incubator for Start-ups that could create social impact (since 2014), and a writer (since 2016).

There is an old proverb – the rolling stone gathers no moss, which sounded a warning bell for persons who are unsettled, wanderers who don’t take responsibilities. But, today it is associated with adventure, freedom and being creative.

I strongly believed in the concept of living in the present and focussing on the job on hand. I had never nurtured a sense of competition, nor had feelings of guilt or regret. Having born and brought up in a typical Indian middle-class, joint-family system, I was generally duty-conscious deep inside, from my very younger years. This enabled me to take care of my ancestral home and modify it in several iterations spread over thirtyeight years (1976–2014) to suit family requirements. Perhaps, it may be due to managing the ancestral home and being with my elders, imbibed in me a strong sense of ethics in whatever I had dealt with. This helped me in facing various crises, both in business and family situations. 

The four elements that I had considered important to attain a strong mind are the following:

– Developing resilience 

– Nurturing relationships 

– Sense of purpose 

– Secular anchor of faith.  

Based on my experience of attaining greater satisfaction through planning and implementing service projects (evident from the longest duration of time that I have spent in this area as compared to other areas), I can confirm to the fact that, if one could identify a purpose that’d benefit larger cross-section of needy (people, environment) and get sincerely involved in the process of implementation, the chances of deriving fulfilment in one’s life are much higher.

~~~

June 1st, 2023 | Ravi 60 

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

GROWTH & CHANGE

Behind every successful man, there is a surprised woman.  But behind every happy man, there are many silent women.  In the 21 st century, driven by technology with a growing number of gratificationseekers, understanding oneself in terms of one’s potential and limitations to lead a happy and fulfilling life is increasingly becoming complex. While we can observe or experience the changes happening around us and realize the necessity to modify ourselves, as we grow older, adapting to change becomes more difficult.  Born in a middle-class, not-so-conservative family living in the then beautiful Bangalore, around the time when India became a full-fledged Republic[1], growing up was easy and fun-filled. My mother tells me that when she was relaxing after lunch in the main hall of our ancestral house, on a cosy afternoon towards the end of July, I popped out of her, as if in a tearing hurry to see how the real world looks like. She also tells me that no one was around at that ti...

FEAR AND FREEDOM

“Freedom is pure observation without direction, without fear of punishment and reward. Freedom is without motive; freedom is not at the end of the evolution of man, but lies in the first step of his existence”. –Jiddu Krishnamurthy (1980) Even with all the materialistic comforts and a fair amount of understanding of life, the one thing that most of us will always love to have is freedom. With aspirations and expectations developed over a period of time since childhood days, based on our understanding as well as family and social conditioning, it becomes increasingly difficult to reorient ourselves at later stages in life. We feel that we have lost that freedom. I was named as Srinivasa Rangan formally at the time of naming ceremony when I was a few days old; I’m told that my paternal aunt started calling me Ravi and that remained my name in the family circle. When my father admitted me to the school, he gave my name as Srinivasa Rangan but I interrupted and told the school principal, “...
  “Transformation does not happen by learning new information. It happens when you change how you view and react to other people, events, and things around you”. I started feeling helplessness when I was about seven. My elder sister who was suffering from Type-1 Diabetes succumbed to the disease when she was just about twelve. This happened within a few weeks of our moving to Khadakavasala (a small town situated seven and a half miles from Pune) following my father’s transfer from Bangalore. I saw the elders at home wailing and didn’t know how to console them. The fact that my sister didn’t return home after my father had taken her out with a few of our neighbours and his colleagues made me seek the reason for it. I was told that she has reached God. It was only a couple of years later I learnt a little more about death.   When I was almost nine, I was afflicted by eczema and it was terribly itchy and painful. I suffered from jaundice a couple of years later; there were severe...